The standard you walk past
A coach tells the team to sprint the last lap. Two players jog it. He sees them do it. He says nothing.
The standard just changed. It isn’t “sprint the last lap” anymore. It’s “sprint unless you’re tired.” He never announced that. He just let it happen, and everyone saw.
What you walk past, you’ve approved. At practice, at the dinner table, in the Monday meeting. Silence isn’t neutral. People read it as permission.
Name one standard you’ve been walking past. Say it out loud once this week. Kindly, clearly, in the moment. Not in a speech afterward.
